tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post7493499667098605532..comments2023-06-16T20:30:37.597+10:00Comments on Banjo's BBS: Celebrating Mommy DearestBanjohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03263547486147917110noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-16971442207405390802016-12-18T07:12:04.304+11:002016-12-18T07:12:04.304+11:00It was time when boys had good disciplineIt was time when boys had good disciplineAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-44005846018269500702015-05-13T23:26:29.559+10:002015-05-13T23:26:29.559+10:00Great conversation!
As for the father always bein...Great conversation! <br />As for the father always being "out of the picture" somehow, I actually like<br />visual of Mom bare bottom blistering her naughty boy, perhaps with Dad in<br />the background looking knowingly remorseful of his sons predicament.... the look on his face says he tool has spent time over "Mommy/Wife's knee. <br />It also adds to the notion of her dominant role as the ONLY no nonsense disciplinarian these" boys" need. Fully capable, in complete charge, and as strict<br />as she desires. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-36471385212012158612014-06-13T15:14:04.718+10:002014-06-13T15:14:04.718+10:00F/M cinderella appeals to me. The princess needs t...F/M cinderella appeals to me. The princess needs to spank him as well though, or the ending will be rather disappointing to the target audience.S.N.M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16939190339217464158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-83307401122254478062013-09-30T13:14:34.768+10:002013-09-30T13:14:34.768+10:00like the thought of strict stepmom standing in doo...like the thought of strict stepmom standing in doorway slipper in hand myself, don't see enough of itAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-7719751533298140692013-09-21T17:40:26.175+10:002013-09-21T17:40:26.175+10:00Wasn't mom that spanked growing up...my aunt w...Wasn't mom that spanked growing up...my aunt was our surrogate mother...hand or slipper....and female mneighbours/mothers were not adverse to teaching us error of our ways.....had a mate who's father remarried....his stepmom was very strict but fair....we were all threatened with going over knee...never happened but 40 yrs later i still have the vision of her slipper standing in doorway, hands on hips....waiting.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-71333548267131050012013-08-21T02:02:50.615+10:002013-08-21T02:02:50.615+10:00Sorry, should be "the way I know" not &q...Sorry, should be "the way I know" not "the was I know"! Oops!Banjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03263547486147917110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-46876283348981022212013-06-20T04:06:00.547+10:002013-06-20T04:06:00.547+10:00@RonThanks, mate. Your life growing up sounds like...<b>@Ron</b>Thanks, mate. Your life growing up sounds like a spanking movie come true! Funny how we look back on things differently. :P<br /><br />Not sure if I prefer "go to Mommy's room for a spanking" or "spanked on the spot", but probably the former, I think... it just has that extra element of dread anticipation and formality along with it (and I've always thought "Mommy's room" was number one on the list of "places to be spanked"!).<br /><br />I know where you're coming from with "hot lady neighbor" dreams, though... sigh...Banjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03263547486147917110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-66997982321098037782013-06-20T04:02:26.599+10:002013-06-20T04:02:26.599+10:00@Smuccatelli
My youthful 'stepmother' fant...<b>@Smuccatelli</b><br />My youthful 'stepmother' fantasies are precisely to avoid imagining being spanked by my own mother and rather some other hot, strange (probably really mean and spank-happy) older lady who barged into my life and roasted my poor bottom far too frequently! :)<br /><br />Considering you got not just spanked by your own Mommy, but spanked in front of friends too (gulp!), no wonder you wound up a spanko, mate! ;)Banjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03263547486147917110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-2758349205654116262013-06-20T03:59:43.729+10:002013-06-20T03:59:43.729+10:00@Colin
As a writer, I'm always torn between my...<b>@Colin</b><br />As a writer, I'm always torn between my desire to keep things 'F/m Pure' (hey, I'm the one who jokingly refers to non-F/m as 'heresy', right?) and 'world building' when it comes to stories and scenarios. Sometimes it's easy to just not mention a male authority figure and the tale or situation is fine for it (for example, this post pretty much never mentions 'Daddy'). On the other hand, sometimes a story pretty much demands explaining the absence of a father-figure to make narrative sense, at least in my anally-retentive "thinks too much about the backstory most of the time" mind. :)Banjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03263547486147917110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-55949219058765156272013-06-20T03:56:22.864+10:002013-06-20T03:56:22.864+10:00@QBuzz
Yes, some Mommies are very strict like that...<b>@QBuzz</b><br />Yes, some Mommies are very strict like that, aren't they? Spanked at school = spanked at home! That's the rule, and no appeals! Even if the at-school spanking was a particularly severe one, I can't see Mommy letting you off the hook if she has that rule under her roof! :(Banjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03263547486147917110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-38326859438716222922013-06-20T03:54:49.936+10:002013-06-20T03:54:49.936+10:00@Hall2226
You're right there, mate! As I said ...<b>@Hall2226</b><br />You're right there, mate! As I said in a response to another comment, the 'evil stepmother' trope had a rather unintended... um... 'effect' on me growing up! LOL!Banjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03263547486147917110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-71896467231557952512013-06-20T03:53:21.695+10:002013-06-20T03:53:21.695+10:00@Alex
That's how I felt growing up; I never ha...<b>@Alex</b><br />That's how I felt growing up; I never had "spanky thoughts" about my own, real, blood-related mother, but did often think them about <i>other people's</i> (friends) mommies! And the 'evil stepmother' fairytale cliche tended to have the opposite kind of effect on me on imagining myself in such a situation (where's the porn world's F/m spanking "Cinderella" ripoff with hot dominant stepmom and stepsisters? *sigh*).<br /><br />I agree on the 'family distance' point too; for me, an estranged Aunty or "call me Aunty" friend-of-the-family (the was I know some girls have 'not-really-my-Uncle' fantasies) is a frequently imagined scenario for me.<br /><br />Thanks for the praise and I'm glad you enjoyed my ramblings here! (your pictures are awesome, mate!) :)Banjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03263547486147917110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-82362338474702284632013-06-20T03:48:52.824+10:002013-06-20T03:48:52.824+10:00@Aunty Andrea
They certainly are, Aunty, and I'...<b>@Aunty Andrea</b><br />They certainly are, Aunty, and I'm sure Aunty Gabrielle would agree... :)Banjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03263547486147917110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-77737655419439822042013-06-07T06:49:23.858+10:002013-06-07T06:49:23.858+10:00An erudite and comprehensive essay on the subject,...An erudite and comprehensive essay on the subject, and one with which I completely agree. Your choices of image to illustrate the essay include some of the most noteworthy spanking models to have graced the scene - all convincing in role as Mommy! Among the many interesting points you make is how F/m 'Mommy spanks' story writers tend to use various excuses to remove the father figure from the narrative, or at least to sideline him. I'm always slightly turned off by the moments of stark realism introduced, for example, with the explanation that he's died, or has had to leave his family to work abroad: these, for me, have the effect of puncturing the fantasy, momentarily. I prefer an hermetically sealed F/m fantasy where the father figure is just absent - without explanation - and where, indeed, he isn't mentioned at all. Colinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-76866577943901746742013-05-25T21:28:21.570+10:002013-05-25T21:28:21.570+10:00As a fellow 'Stepmother' enthusiast I coul...As a fellow 'Stepmother' enthusiast I couldn't agree more. The fount of many of my own fantasies.<br /><br />Adam<br /><br />hall2226https://www.blogger.com/profile/01681425216599266186noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-6767819974712207602013-05-24T05:06:54.820+10:002013-05-24T05:06:54.820+10:00Getting spanked my the matriarch of the house...a ...Getting spanked my the matriarch of the house...a great fantasy, especially when the unfortunate male is getting punished again after being spanked at school!QBuzznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-15652724899478841282013-05-24T03:08:31.940+10:002013-05-24T03:08:31.940+10:00Well, you've pretty much covered ALL the "...Well, you've pretty much covered ALL the "Mommy" fantasies and their various permutations (damn you!) and I've pretty much had them all (except for the "stepmother" ones because the idea of my dad marrying someone else was pretty much unthinkable for me).<br /><br />My first spanking fantasy was of my own "Mommy" pulling me over her knee after first pulling my pants down and soundly spanking my little, bare bottom 'til I was bawling loudly and then letting me up to dance and rub my scorched buns. My second one was her doing that in front of some of my friends or neighbors or relatives so they could witness my embarrassing, childish punishment.<br /><br />Certainly, "Mommy" spankings have been a cornerstone of my spanking fantasies ever since.smuccatellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03711275763426307424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-918662558510050552013-05-24T01:06:57.772+10:002013-05-24T01:06:57.772+10:00" But while Mommy's formidable place in S..." But while Mommy's formidable place in Spankingland is an iconic and powerful one, I have to admit a special preference and love for the "Stepmother" role. Although a boy's birth mother is a natural choice of disciplinarian for him, the idea of a non-blood-related "Stepmommy" figure in his life takes on an extra element of excitement for me. While I find it hard to imagine the idea of "naughty thoughts" about one's own mother, even in harmless fantasy, an Aunt or Stepmom makes such a taboo both more acceptable and more believable to me (though that's obviously a personal thing for me). "<br /><br />NOT so personal!! Again, a view I share with you. <br />And as much as I would have hated my "blood-related" Mom to spank me when I was younger, I wonder if I would have been excited or had fantaisies if it was a pretty stepmother. <br />I often use the character of the stern Aunt in my pictures too, who is doing the job your Mom should have done before. This little family distance is sometimes necessary in my fantaisies, not sure why. <br />Anyway, great article! Covering all areas about the topic<br />CheersAlexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02012776197725139991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-78547176279649527792013-05-23T08:35:55.805+10:002013-05-23T08:35:55.805+10:00Mommies or mother figures are very important in sp...Mommies or mother figures are very important in spanking fiction and I am pleased that you have addressed this, Banjo.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494295369109104831.post-79198901573211685452013-05-23T04:57:58.804+10:002013-05-23T04:57:58.804+10:00Great post and part of the scene you outlined was ...Great post and part of the scene you outlined was my life growing up with a loving but strict mom and her sisters as well. I was spanked by both my aunts, my cousin once and mom. My dad travelled the world back then and was not as easy as it is now. Mom ran our house and she spanked anytime we needed it. Some were the more traditional go to her room, she sat on her vanity bench and either on our white underpants or more severe was bare bottom. Other times she would wisk you over her knee and spank you hard and fast. <br /><br />I do not do mommy scenes but do aunt and cousin scenes. I am waiting for someone who fits to do a neighbor scene, I grew up with just a hot lady neighbor who I dreamed of spanking me but never happened.<br /><br />It is a nice scene when it is domestic like these are and well done.<br /><br />Thanks for sharing<br />RonNjspankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07839344536156873192noreply@blogger.com